National Etiquette Week – #scarletetiquetteweek2015

Guess what week it is! It’s National Etiquette Week and Scarlet will not miss this opportunity to get in on the action! You can look out for fun opportunities to engage with Scarlet all week long. Monday: Kick off your week with positivity and thanks! Write 3 people a hand written thank you note thanking them…

I’m Afraid To Live In The Past

I recently began a very deliberate and calculated journey of ensuring that I create meaningful and valuable memories with my father. As he ages, it becomes apparent that a person that once seemed invincible and unaffected as the years flew by, is in fact aging. The deep and dark reality is that he won’t be…

Did Scarlet Renege?

Always arrive on time. Make sure that you’re at least 15 minutes early. Respect the time of others. These are statements that you’ll continuously hear me saying in both youth and adult etiquette classes. I’m a big advocate of being respectful and mindful of others’, especially as it relates to time. Time is undeniably the…

STRRIIKKEE! Bowling Like A Boss!

Have you been bowling before? Bowling is a simple, fun activity that people of all ages can engage in. But, I’ll be honest, there is one part of bowling that seemed so foolish and annoying that I used to glare from afar wondering, “what’s the point?” That thing is the infamous high fivin’ and fist…

Do You Like Sushi?

“Do you like sushi” is a question that we often ask students in our youth etiquette classes? Most students say “no”, which is always so interesting because we also ask ” who does not like sushi and has not tried it” and many of them raise their hands to this as well. How can you…

How To Get the Competitive Edge

How do you separate yourself from other people? What makes what you have the advantage, the edge or the pizzazz that makes you the “one” – the one that people want to work with, hire, collaborate with endorse or vouch for? Ask yourself, “what makes me special”? Many of us are told, “you are special,…

Excellence Takes No Vacations

This past weekend, I engaged in a unique opportunity to be the guest speaker at a vision board party that my good friend hosted. My role was to discuss how utilizing etiquette and protocol would help transform your board from a vision to reality. I was honored to be asked and enjoyed it immensely, but…

ETIQUETTE ALERT: When Your 5-Year Old Is Invoiced, Scarlet Says…

So, how would you handle a situation where your 5-year old was sent an invoice for skipping their classmate’s birthday party? Well, this really happened in the UK recently. Scarlet has been asked how to best handle this a number of times over the past few days, so, we’ll chime in! The reality of life…

Empathy. Perspective. Patience. Kindness. Forgiveness. Love.

Today, as we formally observe the birthday of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Scarlet Says just one simple thing…spend just one day this week doing something selfless for someone else. The simple thing could be in the form of showing: Empathy – understanding and sharing the feelings of another Perspective – consider someone else’s viewpoint of…